When you first start online dating, it can seem like a scary beast: how do you know what to talk about? How soon should you respond? And how long do you need to chat online before moving things forward? Don't worry if you feel like a fish out of water—you're not alone! We've compiled a list of the best online chatting tips so you can get to know your potential mistress before your long-awaited BDSM session.
Examples of Good Online Dating Conversation StartersIf you are nervous, we are here to guide you through the adventure ride. Saying "hey, wasup" won't get you very far, but this laziness appears to be widespread online. Horses like to hang out in hay, and you probably don't want to date a horse, so please drop the word "hey"!
Before you start agonizing over what to say to someone who is probably chatting with ten other people, keep it simple and unique, and you'll make it past the first round.
- Personalized: "Hello, [insert name]!" I see you're a fan of the …..
Before you send your first message, always use someone's first name or username and read their profile. On our online dominatrix profile, you will get the details of every lady who catches your eye. Nobody wants to feel like they're being spammed with a copy-and-paste message, no matter how clever it is.
- Pose a Question: "Do you prefer your slave to be…. ?"
If you want to start a two-way conversation that will lead to a date with a hot femdom, always ask something interesting. Because it is simple and brief — only three sentences — a text like the one above will elicit a response. It indicates that you've read their profile and can relate to their favorite fetish before asking a question.
You'll almost certainly get a response about how much they love trying something with their slaves. If you're lucky, your potential date may initiate a date with you at the soonest.
- Match Statistics: "Hello, [insert name]! Suchedomina thinks we're 98% compatible, which is a pretty good score. "Would you like to know why?"
Although dating is a numbers game, you can use it to your advantage as you improve your flirting skills. Anyone who is a 90% match or higher, in your opinion, should be informed of this in the first message.
The conversation starter above usually receives an immediate response, so expect the recipient to look over your profile. Most likely, they'll respond that they're curious as well and will strike up a conversation.
There is an element of unaccountability when communicating with someone on a dating app. You two aren't really accountable to each other because you don't know each other and have never met. But what if you meet a really hot online dominatrix and instantly hit it off with them, but the conversation fades after a while?
When your conversation has become stale and you desperately want to rekindle it, there are some clever ways you can pique their interest again. Check out these strategies for restarting a conversation with someone you met on an online dominatrix portal.
- Be open and honest
Because you two have never met, you can be quite direct with them and let go of your inhibitions and shyness. If you want to meet them or simply start flirting with them, tell them directly and directly.
The goal of online dating is to get to know the other person. Because the only information you have about them is from their profile, try expanding on those to gain a better understanding of who they are. You don't have to treat it like an interrogation (which can feel a little intense), but some casual questions near the beginning of your conversation can really get the ball rolling, especially if they have any pets or travel photos in their profile. Try the following:
"That picture of your dog is adorable!"
“What are your hobbies?”
"Have you ever visited a certain place?"
- Send them your phone number
If you feel safe and confident enough, you can always send them your phone number to advance the conversation and instantly revive it. Giving them your phone number will show them that you are still interested to become one of their slaves.
How do you keep the conversation going if it becomes stalled?
Chatting creates momentum and allows you to form attachments to people you will hopefully meet. It's difficult to keep 10 conversations going on three dating apps at once, so strike while the match is still fresh.
When you notice that your response time is increasing while your word count is decreasing, it's time to get creative and send the person you've been chatting with a list of BDSM activities that you would like to have with her.
While chatting and messaging can be entertaining, don't lose sight of the reason you're on a femdom finder app in the first place, which is to meet someone you like. You must make the time to schedule the real BDSM date.
After three or four exchanges, ask for their phone number so you can call them and hear their voice, or set up a time to schedule a video conference. If the time is compatible, try to meet the same or the following week because connecting while the spark is still active is critical.
Conclusion
You should include your basic information as well as some adjectives that accurately describe yourself. Remember, however, that men and women think differently, and there may be things you say that are an obvious turnoff to the opposite sex. Our best advice is to have someone of the opposite sex read your profile and provide you with some insights so you can filter information as an online slave. Another piece of advice we have is to remember to appear as intelligent online as you are in person. Before you hit the send button, check for typos or confusing acronyms. The smoother the chats are, the higher will be your chances of getting spanked, wink wink!
